“When you come to the realization that the only person who you need to make happy is yourself, your entire life will change and it will become what you always wanted it to be.” ACM First things first. For some reason, I do not listen to myself. I read things, I think I’ve absorbed it, … Continue reading U-turn: Duh Moments… →

The problem is... I keep saying no to myself and yes to way too many people... A lady that I would like to get to know even better posted the above meme on Facebook. I appreciate her quirkiness. She is very personable and intriguing. And she is also one of a handful of people who … Continue reading Rest Stop: Self-Discovery →

“Codependency is an unhealthy focus on other people’s problems, feelings, and needs.” – Sharon Martin It fascinates me how I can know something, and still repeat the same pattern. It’s not the people that I come into contact with that are the problem. It’s me. I’m my own biggest problem. Last night, I told a … Continue reading Caution Cone #2: Road Work Ahead →

”I’ll be your dream, I’ll be your wish, I’ll be your fantasy. “I’ll be your hope, I’ll be your love be everything that you need” – Savage Garden I am 41 years old. I was with my ex-life partner for close to 19 years. That is almost half my life. We did not have a … Continue reading Pit Stop: Asking for Directions →

Sometimes I wonder where I've been, Who I am, Do I fit in. I may not win,  But I can't be thrown, Out here on my own, ~Irene Cara Amazing to me all the musical lyrics that I know. I watch the movies and I don’t really hear the notes or the beauty of the … Continue reading Road Tunes →